What do I want in a relationship?

So after of not having been in a relationship for over 6 months, has made me think a lot about it. You know the part of being in a relationship, but also how I want the relationship to be. 

One thing I never want to do, is forcing someone to be in a relationship with me. I want the person I'm going to be in a relationship with, to want to be in a relationship with me and want me. Both mentally, emotionally, energetically, spiritually and psycially. I don't ever want to be in a relationship, were only one or none of those things are present. I'm a person who gives my all and I do expect something in return. I don't want to be in a relationship, because it's "easy". So they got someone who's cooking, cleaning, doing the shopping, doing the dishes, unloading the dishwasher, washing clothes. Basically doing all of the things a maid or housekeeper does. I'm NOT in a relationship, to be in a relationship with only myself! 

But I also need that person, who I'm going to be in a relationship with, to understand, that I need to reach my own goals too - So should he! I don't want to be in a relationship with someone trying to hold me down and not being able to reach my full potentional and reaching my dreams and goals in life! I don't ever want him to feel like I'm holding him down. I want to hype him up, so he can be the best version of himself. I do expect him to do the same to me. I was in relationships with guys, who were trying to hold be down - especially when I started to have succes. I want a relationship, with someone who understands, that we both neeed time apart, to reach our goals, but also spends time together, so we as a couple can reach the goals we have for the both of us. I'm not trying to stand in anybodies way of reaching their goals! I want to help them, so they can get there and be super proud of them. 

But if I'm in a relationship with a guy and we are fare apart, I still need to know and also expect, that he's going to be loyal to me. Meaning no flirting, kissing or more.. with other people. You would think this type would be easy to find, but sadly no... It makes me wonder why anybody would want to flirt with another person, if they have a partner - especially if their partner is right next to them... 

I want a partner who has the same view, like on life, as I do. Someone who has some of the same visons for the furture. Someone I connect with on a deeper level and can talk about things, which I can't really talk about with other people, because I know, they wouldn't understand. But also someone who doesn't think about what society wants him to do and just does his own thing. Just like I want our relationship, to be our own. Not letting society decide how our relationship should be and what we should do. It should just be us and doing it our way! 

I do have some things I wish to do with a partner. I know it's probably some dumb things, but I haven't really tried alot of these things and I really would like to know what it feels like. 

A) Being facebook official: Yes I know to a lot of people it sounds really dumb, but I would really like to be official on facebook and not hearing "those who knows we are together, knows it. The rest shouldn't"... Why wouldn't you like to let people know, that you are in a relationship?! What are you hiding? 

B) Post pictures of us and me on Social media. It's kinda like the same with A). Just knowing that someone is proud of being your partner and proud of you. That is a really great feeling, I think ( I wouldn't know..). I don't mean to over spam every single platform, but just a picture once  in a while would be nice.. 

C) Travel together/Flying together:Yes this one is probably really dumb, But I've always wanted to travel somewhere by plane with a partner. I have never really done this, so I don't know the feeling. I know for a lot of people, this might not seem like anything special, but it is to me... Maybe stay in a nice hotel with a bathtub, cause I honestly would so like to try, just soaking and relaxing in a bathtub. 

D) Living together: This one I tried and it turned out to be not so great. So for me to live with someone, I want him so be able to clean up after himself. Meaning not to throw his dirty laundy anywhere, but never pick it up. Like not even putting it next to the laundy basket. Also meaning to take the dishes out and clean them. Not letting food be out, making them bad. Honestly just being able to be responsible and taking care of himself! Not me having to mother him all hours of the day. Also not him not gaslighting and lying constantly. 

E) Marrige: I do honestly want to get married with my partner some day. But the person I marry has to be my best friend, my souldmate and twin flame. He has to be sure, that he wants a life with me. Wedding wise, I know alot of people might think I want to throw a big party with loads of fancy thing. But I just honestly want it to be with family and friends. People you want to spend love and an important day with. Walking around barefoot and feel the energy, the earth is giving you!